You have the version 3.0 S.E.X. amp.
The grid stoppers are the 220-ohm resistors attached to pins 3 and 10 of the 6FJ7, labelled "Rstop" on the circuit. They replaced the somewhat fragile carbon composition used in earlier versions and there is little to no benefit in changing them.
There are no 120-ohm resistors on the headphone socket in this version 3.0, so there's no point in trying to replace them :^)
The 499-ohm resistors on the C4S board, labelled R1A and R1B on the PC board, set the current. Those resistors do potentially affect the sound, so bulk metal foil resistors can be considered an upgrade. The board is a little tight there, so be sure they will fit before spending the big bucks!