The bogey 6SN7 is much closer to the bogey 12AU7 than the standard deviation between random samples of either tube.
For example, at the Foreplay operating point, I checked the GE data sheets which give detailed values for the various parameters. The 6SN7 has a mu of 20.2, rp of 9800 ohms; the 12AU7 is 19.0 and 9500 ohms. Transconductance is mu/rp, so 2060 micromhos vs. 2000.