Gah--I fixed it. Soooo... it was a bad solder joint...probably? I promise, promise I went back and redid each of the joints.
I spent the afternoon fiddling with making some cables with a buddy, and then, I kind of had a sense of determination to figure this out. (Not to mention my crappy backup pre-amp was so noisy and driving me nuts)...
I rechecked all the resistances... and noticed with pin 8, on that socket, I would get different results depending on where I touched the pin. (Sometimes I'd get resistance, and then the LED would light up slightly and it'd hit infinity.). So I resoldered it again, probably for the 3 or 4th time. But maybe I was more careful, or maybe just who knows... And then it seemed to be consistent with the other channel. SO everythign checked out... I plugged it in.. and.... ahh.
I suspect this problem may have been going on since before I even started the upgrade. (As per comments above). I wonder if this is consistent with a balance issue I noticed (Which I thought had to do with my amp, I had to cheat it all the way over to one side to make it sound correctly balanced.) This seems to no longer be an issue. Is that consistent with what may have been going on? Am I just imagining things?
Okay... on with the rest of the upgrade. Ahhh.......