Thaddeus,
The problem with researching tubes on the internet is they are always impressions of individuals whose gear, power, room, and listening preferences and perceptions are likely different from yours and not easy to quantify.
That said, and in my SR-45s, I very much like the original sonics of original old stock American 45s. I find the RCA derivatives (RCA, cunningham, national union, etc.) to be a bit warmer and fuller sounding and say the sylvanias to be a bit more "lively" if you will. In fact I sold my EML 45 meshplates as like the originals much better, and they're a good bit cheaper (except for the 245/345 globe types, which are much harder to find in good pairs.) I haven't finished my sterreomour and don't plan to build it as a 45 amp anyway, but my guess would be that a 1950s Raytheon triple mica black plate 12at7WA would be a nice match with either old stock American 45s or new production ones. These tubes too will take some digging around to find, but they'll last a lifetime when you get one, and again, not nearly as expensive as the new production or NOS euro types.
So, there's my personal opinion on a starting point that certainly won't disappoint even if it's not your final stopping place. You could spend a whole lot more and not do as well, that's for sure.
Yup, system and room synergy, and ultimately what floats your boat. Who knows, the sophias and stock driver tube may be what you ultimately find best to your ears.
Sorry if this is a rather vague recommendation, but that's about all anybody can honestly give you.
Jim