It will take more time to build the amp with the upgrades all at once. If anything goes wrong, you'll need to pull the upgrades out and go back to stock in order to properly debug the amp. The instructions are written assuming that you are starting with a completed amp, so it gets complicated to figure out what does and doesn't need to be built in from the get go.
The current manual was revised on 9/21/18, so anything you've seen in the forum posted after that hasn't been incorporated.
As Derek mentioned, if you have very sensitive speakers, I would go for the DC filament upgrade. If you're using the Stereomour as an integrated amp (using the level control), then I would go with the attenuator. If you're going to turn the volume controls all the way up and just use a preamp, I would go with the shunt regulated driver upgrade.