This just got a lot weirder.
The issue is now occurring in both 2A3 tubes; I know for a fact that yesterday the second tube worked fine for listening in mono. I did a full resistance check of the amp as described in the manual and everything came out fine, so I'm really perplexed here. I also tested continuity between the 4 pins on each tube while they were standing vertically, and nothing was abnormal there. The odds of both of these failures being unrelated are extremely low, yet I can't find anything wrong with the amp.
Measuring the resistance to ground of the pins in the socket with all tubes removed, I get 1.25k for both heater pins, 248k for the grid, and an open circuit for the plate. Measuring voltages on the socket with the amp on but no tubes present, I get 448V on the plate, 0V on the grid, and a 2.5V sine centered at 0V on the heater pins. These measurements are identical for both sockets. I think it is normal for B+ to be higher with no tubes in.
I tested the filaments on both tubes and they both seem damaged in different ways. On tube A (the tube that failed first) it draws 2.5A at 2.5V but the filament does not visibly glow until I increase voltage to 3V, at which point it glows like it did when it was healthy. Tube B draws 3.1A at 2.5V and the filament doesn't visibly glow at all, even when increasing to 4V at 4.1A.
On close inspection, tube B's filament seems to be bent towards the grid in one spot but not quite making contact, and there is also what looks like some fine particles on the interior surface of the plate around that area. Tube A's filament and grid still look fine though.
I'm trying the tubes in the amp again and tube B is now not exhibiting any blue glow or anything at all, really.
Measuring voltages on socket pins & cathode resistor during startup, with 2 driver tubes present and 1 output tube:
Tube A:
plate: Voltage comes up to ~445V then gradually declines to ~430V then sharply drops to ~250-300V at the moment it starts sparking/glowing. The waveform then becomes very jagged, sort of like a bouncing switch, at this point I turn it off and the voltage smoothly falls to 0.
grid: Starts at 0V, slight ~50v transient when switching on, then after a few seconds, gradually climbs to 200V. The voltage here seems proportional to the brightness of the blue/red glow emanating from the tube. Declines to 0V over ~2 seconds when switching off. The plate and grid are an open circuit when the amp is off so somehow the tube is showing some conduction from plate to grid, or the grid is touching the filament but only when the tube is warm.
cathode resistor: Starts at 0V and is still only around 10-20V when the glow starts, but then climbs to ~210V when the glow is brightest.
Tube B:
plate: Voltage comes up to ~445V and just stays there indefinitely
grid: Starts at 0V, slight ~50V transient when switching on, then returns to 0V and stays there indefinitely.
cathode resistor: Starts at 0V and stays there indefinitely
I can only record these measurements for tube A for a few seconds before switching the amp off for safety.
I'm really at a loss here, I don't I want to get a new set of 2A3s before I can fully trust the amp, yet I can't find any issue with it.