Howdy kids!
I am here to tell ya, the 6as7/6080's and others can do this. I have the Sylvania Gold 6080 (and several others) that was included with my kit and it whistles and hums like an old crazy person. I have a slew of 6080's 6as7g's and one 7802 TungSol that are all dead silent.
My Sylvania, a couple "cheapo" 6080's and one of a set of Svetlana 6n13's all do this. Some of them didn't make any racket at first, one of my GE 5stars did it from the get go but after 80hrs burning in it stopped and doesn't do it at all now. Took me a while to find a quiet set of tubes because the included Electro Harmonix 12au7 would hum too, and that didn't start humming till after about 50hrs of burn in. I got a deal on a couple more, burned them in and after about 60hrs they started to hum too.
drove me a little insane at first till I picked up a handful of 5814's in a cheap auction and they all sound good but... are perfectly quiet. Now I have managed to collect a small stash of Amperex 12au7's, 1 orange globe, a couple flashers, a very nice Dumont (which I'm currently using), and sadly a sweet looking Bugle Boy that works perfectly but has hum in the right channel.
The reality is that there is no guarantee that a new reproduction or NOS tube will not be microphonic. I have experienced noisy tubes in just about every piece of gear I have at one point or another. My Crack being the most sensitive because it's a headphone amp and you are must more prone to hearing hum or whistle through headphones so if it's not silent it's hard to miss.
I personally have never purchased any of the silicone tube dampers on the market, BUT, for a tube that doesn't make a lot of noise it might help, generally speaking I would say tube dampers would be more beneficial if you don't have your amp isolated well from it's surroundings then it might help, if you're squeezing hard enough on the glass to stop the hum I doubt dampers will help. Keep looking for a quiet tube. I have had really good luck with the Russian tubes, anything JAN or Chatham marked, and I have several super nice Tung Sol's all silent. I also run my tubes in for about 80 hours when I get a new one before I give it a serious listen but I'm crazy like that
Good luck! Have patience, and don't give up, you won't have to spend a fortune to find a quiet tube or 5 lol. I watch ebay constantly just to keep my eye out for whatever looks like it might be fun or for anything I haven't tried yet that I want to. The 7802 that I have was a BIN ebay auction that I ninja'd at like 5am for $10 shipped and it's one of the nicest sounding tubes I have for this amp.
as long as it sounds good, who cares?
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