Hi Howie,
The difference between the tfa-2004 and the junior is the size of the lamination stack -- and thus the poer handling. For a 45 or 2a3, the jr is plenty robust enough and *may* have a slight advantage for a lower power amp as it will have less core losses.
The EXO-45 is a 5k primary (instead of 3K fpr te 2004s) and I believe has a maximum power handling capability of 3 watts -- still enough for the 45 but may be pushing it with a 2a3, but it's not a typical primary impedance for a 2a3.
For th bpc-15 you want the 50 henry, 40 ma flavor for the sr-45, or as you mentioned, the Dowdy. Downside to the dowdy is that it may not fit on an existing chassis (it mounts on top and has endbells), and with a 3k primary impedance on the tfa-2004/jr, the parafeed cap will have to be fairly large -- midpoint is about 28 uF -- and at 630volts, that's a biggie!
Hope this helps,
Jim
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