Sam, I started with a Khozmo attenuator in the Quickie but pulled it to put in the Sex when I get the kit. I built one using a Shallco switch I bought some time ago. I believe these switches are discontinued but I think Michael Percy and VT4C in China still have them in stock. I'm not sure that the sound quality from stepped attenuators are a vast improvement over wipers, but you rarely have any issues with either channel being louder than the other. I have found that using the discrete set up for an attenuator, (leaded resistors vs. surface mount) gives much better results. I have a fondness for the attenuators though, I like the tactile feedback from turning the switch. When listening to vinyl using the Crack I have it set around noon and the Quickie at 1:00 or 2:00. The Eros has more gain than the seduction so that would probably be different for you. I don't have the Sex yet, but I borrowed a 2 watt Chinese amp from a friend before I ordered to verify that 2 watts would be sufficient, I have been setting it at 2:00, as well as the Quickie and there is a lot of room left. Hope this helps.
Cheers,
Shawn