Today I pulled myself together and placed the projector in a temporary setup to start trying it. The first thing I noticed was that at the 107" throw distance that Curt calculated I was getting a smaller image. Checked the manual and it says that for a 96" width the distance should be 127" instead. I pulled it back and voila. Unfortunately in the big installation it will be closer to 107 than 127 so it may not fill the full screen.
Anyway. We noticed that the image came and left and it's clearly the hdmi jack. Until it left completely. Now I only get a No Vsync message. I'm really hoping it's the card. I know I'm not the one with issues with these cards
Another problem is that although the fan is very silent something vibrates. Maybe something got loose on shipping? Will look at that.
On the positive side I learned to reverse the throw (it's on the floor now) and did a lot of adjustments after the signal left. Its easier to adjust than what I expected!