It's not simple, unfortunately. CD player output is the instantaneous peak, which is (in traditional high-qiality recordings as made in the fifties and sixties) about 14dB greater than the peak loudness as measured with a sound level meter or a VU meter. Cartridges are measured at a needle velocity of 5cm/sec, which is approximately the peak meter loudness.
That 14dB difference is called headroom. In modern recordings, the headroom may be as low as 1dB or as great as 20dB, and the better cartridges will in fact handle 20dB above their rated 5cm/sec value, depending on the choices of the recording engineer and/or their marketing department.
Furthermore, SETs generally overload quite gracefully, and can tolerate as much as 6dB of clipping on instantaneous peaks before the distortion becomes obvious - depending on your individual sensitivity to distortion.
And room acoustics will result in a +/-6dB variation in loudness for the same speaker/amp combination for more-or-less conventional domestic listening rooms.
It's a jungle out there!
FWIW, most people listen at 82dB peak meter loudness, with a range of +/- 10dB or so.