Hello Robert,
I think the SEX would be a good match. What kind of speakers do you intend to use with it? Typically we suggest wiring for 4 ohm operation when headphones are a priority, as this trades away power that you don't really need for a lower noise floor.
If a tube blows, you just need to snag a replacement. The 6FJ7 has been a tube for decades in zero demands, so they are a bit tough to find but at the same time still somewhat common. If you build your SEX amp, turn it on, then never turn it off, you can expect about five years of tube life. If you run the amp 2-3 hours per day, tube life will be in the decades.