status update:
I attempted to prod nearly all of the terminals with a plastic pen and could find no real correlations between which terminals I poked and the effect on the A3 LED. (all of them, even on socket B, seemed to affect it equally)
I did put my phone under the amp and tapped very lightly on the tip of the 12AU7. This seemed like a strong correlation because of how softly i was touching it and the fact that it did reliably cause the A3 LED to go on and off. I'm thinking either a problem with the 12AU7 or something with the socket.
I did monitor the voltage of the headphone jack during the problematic behavior. After 'boot up' of the amp, the voltage did increase but stayed below 9 volts (think it peaked around 6, and then declined). Since normally the startup of the amp never experienced the bad behavior (it seemed only possible once the tubes heated up) I never got to see any abnormal fluctuations during the startup period. Voltages went down to 0 on the jack after about 4-5 seconds after the peak. Then after a while i began to tap the amp and got the the A3 LED to flash, Once this happened I saw wildly fluctuating voltages on the headphone jack (tip), 24v was certainly hit several times while the problem was occurring. Maybe this provides a clue?
Since the volume control was brought up as possible cause, and because i was not terribly happy with the tightness of my braid (after seeing doc's photos of one of his builds), and because I now have a well tinned iron and some fresh solder, I decided to re-braid and re-do all the connections on the volume control. During this process i must have damaged the volume control as I am no longer able to measure any resistance across the 2 red terminals. I can still measure resistance across the 2 white terminals (which is up around 106 ohms, as it was before). So, sadly, I'm going to need a replacement for this part.
I had resoldered T1L, T2L, T3L, A-Center, and A1, and A2, and I had soldered the input termals (all 3 wires, and all of the connections to the volume control (after i broke it apparently).
To proceed, and so multiple parts orders aren't needed (I'd like to minimize shipping delays) I'd like to order the following parts:
1 12AU7
1 socket A
1 socket B
4 LED's
1 volume control
24" more of each color of wire (black/red/white)
I don't mind paying for this stuff, my priority is to get this completed as soon as I can.