OK, so here's what I ended up implementing. As a reminder, I needed ~40 dB of attenuation.
Per PB's suggestion, I swapped out the 33K input padding resistor in the EFP3 with a pair of 182K Vishay Dale CMF .1% 1/8W resistors. This gives me ~12 dB of attenuation.
Next, I populated my RCA barrels with a 16.9K Vishay Dale CMF .1% 1/4W series resistor and a 698 ohm Vishay Dale CMF .1% 1/4W shunt resistor. This achieves ~28 dB of attenuation, while still approximating the source impedance of 700 ohms (@ 698) and the load impedance of 18K (@ 17.6K) that would be there with the preamp directly connected to the power amp.
That -12 dB + -28 dB gives me my total of -40 dB and also reduces the chances of overloading the preamp.
So far, it's working great. Volume controls on the EFP3 are right in the sweet spot and I only have one barrel per channel (vs. three) hanging off my power amp. I might be imagining it, but I could swear the imaging is a little better and the mid-bass is punchier and better defined, too.