That looks like a nice meter! I have two of these meters and find them to be good for my needs:
https://www.amazon.ca/multimeter-MeasuresVoltage-Capacitance-Transistors-Temperature/dp/B075WRQYX5/ref=sr_1_1I've always been skeptical of "cheap" meters, so a few weeks ago I compared this meter to a calibrated Agilent 34401A bench meter and found that my cheaper one reads an average of 0.26% high on the AC range and 0.06% low on the DC range. I thought this was pretty impressive performance for a $20 meter...
I've been using various pencil irons (15-40w range) for decades. About a year ago, I purchased this solder station and really like it:
https://www.circuitspecialists.com/csi-premier-75w-Soldering-Station.htmlThe Weller station you picked is also a nice one. Depending on what kind of work you do, you may find a need for more than 40w of heat from time to time. Sometimes I work on a PCB that has a large solder pad that is attached to a heavy ground plane, so it takes a lot of heat to make a good solder joint. Other times, I work with heavy gauge inductors that take a while to heat with my pencil iron, but are a breeze with a bit more heat capacity.
+1 for lead-based solder. This is a military standard because it keeps the solder from developing "whiskers" over time that can cause shorts or other failures.