No Vcap experience. I'm something a a cap noob actually. So I have been reluctant to spend $$$ on them, which is why I have been sticking with mid range Audyn. Normally I would have been reluctant to spring for an Audyn True Copper because $$$. I have been reading cap reviews assiduously, but as I am sure you have found, it's a lot, and it's clearly a pretty subjective thing. I am convinced my most recent mods made a very big improvement, but honestly I cannot say if it's the resistor, the caps or the tubes. I suppose I should put the stock tubes back in for a comparison before I do my next set of modes to see if I can tell if those True Coppers actually can be heard or if it's probably the tubes. Although I did read somewhere in this forum that the True Copper will need 300hr of music to break in, which is a lot of albums before that test would be valid.
I think you are right that the original Eros is the one that would be OK with a .47uf cap. I couldn't find absolute confirmation that 1.0 is OK for the E2, but it seems to sound great and hints were that it should be fine. I went with the 1.0 because 1.5 was out of stock and a 2.2 was twice the price and huge. I think it would be fine to oversize it, just not especially beneficial.
Between you and me I suspect bypass caps are BS, not that it's stopped me from putting them in my Moreplay. ;-) I don't know what I don't know so I'm keeping an open mind. As far as where, I suppose in theory any large value electrolytic would be a candidate. I put some on my moreplay's power supply caps. The other place is across big expensive metallized film caps like a coupling cap, where you'd select as high a quality small value (0.01uF ?) film and foil as you can find to bypass a cheaper main cap. Just be sure the value of you bipass cap is small enough that it doesn't mess with the function of the main cap. As far as a 0.1uF Audyn goes, I'm assuming you are looking at the coupling cap, the value is fine. Presumably you would be using the top of their line, like a true copper. That would make sense. No clue if it would actually make an audible improvement.
Can I hear the difference between resistors? Not that I have been able to tell, but I haven't ever tried a clean test where the resistors are the only difference. The z-foils I have been selecting based on their specifications and the fact that Vishay markets them for high end audio. They kind of look cool too, and I am a sucker for cool looking. Spec wise I am not aware of anything better, but please keep in mind that my knowledge is extremely limited compared to folks like Paul, Paul, and Doc, and I imagine many of the other longtime forum members. I'm an engineer by training so it's not hard for me to sound like I know what I'm talking about when in fact I am blissfully unaware that I'm clueless ;-).
To anyone reading this, Please if I have said anything stupid that could mislead someone else, set me straight.