Ed,
I think there is a typo on the product page that is a throwback to the paramour II amps in that the input impedance is 100k for the stereomour, not 249k. Took me a while to figure out what you were talking about, but this must be it. The normal pot is 100k, so I'd sub 100k resistors for the pot, and it would just go across each inputpair from signal hot to ground, and I'd keep it as close to the grid stopper as is practical -- in other words, not at the input jack. That would work, but could possibly make the signal cable inside the amp more prone to picking up hum. I say possibly because it is shielded, but I still prefer to keep loads like that closest to the tube input.
As for type, any good metal film, tantalum, or such should be fine. I'd use the vishay dale metal films or if I wanted something more exotic, maybe a caddock mk132, and a nude bulk foil if I wanted to get carried away. I'd also get them matched fairly closely if it were me.
Jim Rebman -- recovering audiophile
Equitech balanced power; uRendu, USB processor -> Musette DAC -> 5670 tube buffer -> Finale Audio F138 FFX -> Cain and Cain Abbys near-field).
s.e.x. 2.1 under construction. Want list: Stereomour II
All ICs homemade (speaker and power next)