I am working under the assumption that this discussion is based around the S.E.X. Am I right? Please be explicit here, I can only help if I know what we are talking about. My biggest source of confusion is in statements like this "I think Sam and I are on the same page as I suggested connecting the incoming ground/safety ground to the known signal common. " Very specific, yet completely vague.
Looking over the S.E.X., the chassis plate forms the main ground, it is connected to earth ground via the solder tab near the power inlet. The right input is connected to ground: black from the input goes to the pot, which goes to 12L, which is jumpered to 13L, which is a center terminal on the strip, therefore chassis, therefore ground. The left channel does not repeat this connection, most likely for noise issues of some kind (ask someone smarter than me for full details). Both channels are definitely connected to ground with the jumper from the headphone jack to 23L (again, center terminal). The specifics of this connection will vary depending on the jack used (varied yet again if the Impedance Switch Boards are used), but the connection is made regardless. I will edit my previous post since I'm not so sure about the statement about signal ground being connected only at one point.
As for the STP interconnects, they worked for me. I was having terrible hum with a coax based interconnect, I made something as described, my hum went away. Like I said, YMMV, but a few bucks at Radio Shack and a few minutes at the solder station can go a long way.