I don't understand the 4 pole designation on the shunt control, the picture may not be accurate? But this is maybe not the best option for you.
The ladder is the nicest option for you IMO, it provides a constant impedance for you and only two resistors in the signal path, but ladders are somewhat pricey.
The series type is conceptually the closest to the original controls, a string of resistors instead of a carbon trace, with contacts at each junction for your steps. This control will also present a constant input impedance, but there are more parts in the signal path. This is not really the doomsday scenario that many make it out to be, these are still great controls.
The shunt control you linked to is a little mysterious. Generally, you will have a fixed resistor from the input jacks to the input of the switch, then the switch will select different resistors to place between your fixed resistor and ground. This is an outstanding option for a sensitive circuit or a piece of equipment with lots of gain, but I'm not sure it's the best idea for a SEX amp.
I hope this helps!
-PB