Haha! Well, yes, you do have an odd collection of parts!!
I'll start with something about Paramour, though that's not what you really want. Paramour runs the 2A3 at 300v + 60v bias, 50mA, into 4000 ohms. The RCA book shows 250v+45v bias, 60mA, into 2500 ohms. These are two points on a spectrum of possibilities, and are in fact very similar in terms of distortion and power. As you can see, the optimum load impedance is a strong function of the voltage and current.
OK, back to what you have. The first board you showed appears to be John Tucker's shunt regulator for the driver, using one half of the tube as regulator for the other half as driver, with a current source for the driver plate load. I don't have manuals or circuits for that; it was not a Bottlehead product. The "Paraglow II" was the name given to a Bottlehead Paraglow with the Tucker regulator added.
The Paraglow itself has a LOT of versions - it started life as series feed, called "Afterglow" since the associated preamp was the "Foreplay" - yes we are gradually backing off those kinds of names! There were also a few more or less custom designs called "eXcite" at the time. The important point is that they were all direct-coupled, so while the power supply voltage was high, the voltage available for the 2A3 was not. Hence the 2A3 operated at the RCA book value and your EXO-36 is the correct output transformer. The current Bottlehead version of that circuit is the Paramount with 2A3, using the v4.4 C4S/shunt reg board, also known as the "soft-start" board. (That board is available as an upgrade for older Paramounts, with the 5670 driver - in many ways, quite similar to the 6N1P. Naturally I recommend it, since it incorporates lessons learned over the last decade or more.)
The original Afterglow ran 100v on the driver plate, 145v at the 2A3 cathode, and 400v at the 2A3 plate. Later versions ran much higher, as much as 475v, with the driver taking most of that extra voltage. This wide variation in driver voltage has a profound impact on the 2A3 operating point, and is the reason that the v4.4 driver board includes an adjustable driver bias so that the operating point can be optimized even when power line voltage deviates from 120v. Separately, because of the voltage variations, the 2A3 cathode resistor was 2500, 3000, and (currently) 4000 ohms - all aimed at obtaining the same 60mA current!
I'm not sure of the current inventory, but I imagine Bottlehead could scare up copies of the old Paraglow manual and the Tucker upgrade manual, and of course the "soft-start" package has its own manual. I would strongly advise determining the actual voltage available first and adjusting the circuit values accordingly! If it were me, I'd go so far as to build a power supply with regulator (if you are using it) and loading it with a giant resistor to simulate the circuit load, before finalizing the audio portion of the circuit.
Hope that helps.
