Balanced connections are about making sure the impedance at each leg (hot and cold, or signal + and signal -) is equal, relative to ground - nothing more, nothing less (this is not differential, push pull, etc., etc. ad nauseum). If you want to make a "virtual ground" (we are really talking about a virtual center tap) connection, that implies that there is no center tap to connect to ground. The 70 ohm resistors would go from each end of the secondary to ground, and that creates the virtual (grounded) center tap. Thus, if either end of the secondary is currently connected to ground that connection must be lifted for this to work.