Randy, do you mean the base of the tube (usually ceramic for the larger tubes), or when they are sitting in the socket? If it's the tube base there is some tube base cement you can get or some high temp silicone can work as well. If you mean the socket, that is more a function of the particular sockets used, but most will allow you to move the tube a fair bit. Just gently push down until they seat evenly and you should be good. If the tubes are falling over on their own, then you probably need a new socket. Some sockets have a death grip on the pins and some don't and older sockets can lose their tension after some years or repeated tube rolling.
HTH,
Jim
Jim Rebman -- recovering audiophile
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