Randy,
Your ability to recreate the bedroom as a diagram is very helpful. Let me just say this, experimentation is an incredible tool. What seems odd may well work. I have had bedroom systems too, and they are a challenge. As I recall, lower volume helps disassociate some of the acoustic problems encountered in typical rooms. And if possible, near field listening is helpful. No doubt, you are a thinker, so try brainstorming ideas. You may well be surprised with the results