OK, now I'm going completely from memory, here, so please take what I say with that in mind!
As far as your first question, I think the important thing is to make sure the chassis plate is attached to safety ground, which I seem to remember as tag 13. So, if you have good continuity from the round ground prong of your AC plug to the chassis plate, you are safe.
Circuit ground will attach to the plate, either at the uninsulated RCA connectors, or by attaching circuit ground to safety ground at tag 13 if you have insulated RCAs.
As to your second question, as long as that reading is that high and rising, I think you're good to go. As I recall, there is a capacitor across a 68k resistor at that point, and your meter is trying to cope with a capacitor charging up from the meter itself, so it may or may not take a very long time, indeed, for it to charge fully depending on your meter. In the meantime, the meter "sees" the capacitor as another resistor in parallel with the 68k, and it is measuring the combination of the two current paths.
Anyone who still has a FP2 manual handy, please chip in here and correct me!