My problem is i have never soldered AND am a huge perfectionist.. NOT a good marriage... so I am going to have to reprogram my habitual mindset to enjoy and "let go" instead of stressing that a solder joint doesnt look quite perfect... It should be good therapy for me...
I'm the same way, but I can't even begin to tell you how much I enjoyed building my Crack kit. The instructions are VERY, VERY good, so you really can't go wrong if you take your time and follow them perfectly. In fact, I would argue that being anal and extremely detail-oriented makes you a perfect candidate for building one of Bottlehead's kits.
If you want to build something useful while you practice your soldering skills, then try this:
http://www.rock-grotto.co.uk/crossproject2.htm. It's a very short, very simple project to build a cross-feed circuit for use with headphones. Frankly, by the time you've completed that simple kit, you will be more than ready to tackle one of Bottlehead's kits.
And I should add that the Bottlehead team provides AMAZING customer service through the boards. They seem to answer messages here at all hours of the day, and always take the time to write thoughtful and helpful responses, even to questions they must have answered hundreds, maybe even thousands, of times before. And then on top of the Bottlehead team, you have lots of other helpful souls, like Eric and Grainger, and on and on...
All the best,
Adam