Thanks for the advice. I did find some tubes when searching for p vs pi. I ordered 2.
While I had the preamp out for replacing my loose 300b socket, I put everything back and checked voltages. Sure enough, terminal 6 is 185V (with the dead EL84 on that side) while terminal 11 is 146V. If I swap EL84s, the voltage imbalance follows. I must have been operating this way for a 8-15 hours or so (I know last week both EL84s were glowing). And the preamp sounds great.
Have I been hurting anything operating this way? I'm sure I've stressed the circuits around. But they work with a working tube so all is well as far as I can see.
Mac mini running Roon->
Mytek Brooklyn DAC+->
Darwin Truth RCA IC->
BeePre (BeeQuiet, Mundorf Ag/Au/Oil, Sophia Royal Princess 300B)->
Audioquest Colorado->
Rogue Audio Atlas Magnum amp (Psvane small signal tubes, KT150s)->
Audioquest Gibraltar-speaker cables>
Magnepan 1.7 & REL T-5