Just wanted to report back of success, for future reference (and of course another question). I ended up cutting a couple of Mogami "Gold Studio" XLR cables I had lying around, used one end of each cable to go from the SEX to the DCX. Installed the extra resistors in the XLR shells on the load side. Then soldered a TS connector on the other cut cables to go from the DCX to a Nano Patch Plus volume control, which is a budget passive that appears to be adequate for sub duty. Lastly made a TS x RCA cable (as short as possible) out of Belden coaxial for the Nano to the power amp (Aragon 8008ST). Works great. The SEX is not overloading the DCX; in fact where I usually run my levels, I could use even more gain. Thanks to Paul for your help.
But now, more questions... I want to try my Magnepan MMGs in this system, fully modded (new frames and x-overs). Obviously the SEX won't drive these; I have an Aragon 8002 for that. And now that I'm a big time Bottlehead fan, I'll want to eventually add the Foreplay pre. But the funds for that won't be there 'till the end of the year, and if the maggies don't work out, I'll then go back to Hi-Eff and the Stereomour route instead.
So now that I know the SEX will work as a "preamp of sorts", I would like to slum it for a while until I can afford the Foreplay. I had already tried to drive the Aragon directly with the SEX, it didn't like it. One of the channels dropped out, luckily only temporarily. So is there a way I can pad down the output on the signal going from the SEX straight to the MMG's amp (leaving the DCX hooked up as is)? Or was it operator error, the direct connection should of worked? I