I looked up my original design notes from 2012, and the 45 Stereomour should produce around 2.3 watts. That's only 2dB less than 3.5 watts, which is a barely audible difference. Most audiophiles can probably hear the difference in an A-B comparison, but not in a yesterday/today comparison. The gain is also similar since they use the same OPT.
There are some more technical reasons for what you hear:
1. Using the same 3.3uF for both versions provides better protection from overload for the 45 in the deep bass. These were not accidents; at the time they seemed to me the best compromise for each situation. But it does give them more similar bass extensions
2. Since I was bending both to use the same output transformer, I did choose to make them sound as much alike as I could in the midband, by choosing operating points. If you don't hear much difference in tonality, that may be a reason. You might get closer to the more classic 45 sound if you substituted a 5K transformer for the 4K OT-2.