1) Short answer: filament power = V^2/14, in watts. The answer should be close to 2.84W. So measure the filament voltage and apply that formula.
The long answer: Power is a bit tricky because you need to know the hot resistance of the filament. and you measure the filament voltage. With those two values you can calculate filament power. The formula is P = V^2 / R, where P = power in watts, V = filament voltage, R = the hot filament resistance. The nominal hot filament resistance can be calculated from data on the tube datasheet if it gives heater voltage and current. The formula is R = V/I. The Radiotron 6V6GT sheet I just looked up states V = 6.3 V (AC or DC), and I = 0.45 A, so the nominal heater hot resistance is 14ohms. Note that you cannot just measure the heater resistane when it's cold because it will be much lower and thus give you the wrong heater power.
2) Recommended tubes: I have the following NOS tubes, all of which I like, some better than others. In order of least to best sounding IMO:
#4 NOS 6V6 JAN (metal body tubes made several companies) This is a nice tube and cheap. $15 ea. Pin 1 should be grounded because the metal body is connected to pin 1. It sounds better than the stock tubes. Great value.
#3 NOS Bendix Jan-CEA-5992 This is an expensive sought after tube that is compatible with the 6V6. At $175 each its not all that for the money IMHO, sorry I bought them. They sound fine, but not $175 fine.
#2 NOS Sylvania 6V6GT JAN "Brown Base". $40 ea This tube and the next one are sonically equally beautiful. Much nicer than the stock tubes IMO
#1 NOS RCA 6V6G gray glass. $40 ea This is a "coke bottle" shaped tube (6V6G) that looks cool and sounds beautiful. It's my favorite tube and my daily driver. I included a pic.