If the manual suggests a full wrap of the ground lug, it's to make sure there is good physical contact of the wire to the lug before soldering. The same reason why it's suggested to crimp the wires with needle nose pliers to the terminals they will be connected to. In all actuality, if you have already soldered but made good physical contact with the lug without wrapping, it will be fine.
The upper and lower holes of the large tube socket lugs are electically the same. If I understand what you are asking ... no, you dont have to completely bridge the solder between the lower and upper holes. The lug itself is a conductor for it's entire length. Doesnt matter if the solder brigdes both holes together or not. Just make good contact with the wire to the lugs and then a good solder connection.
Same will apply to the terminal strips upper and lower connections. Just for an example, T-17U and T17L. They are electrically the same, connected by the fact that the terminal tab itself is a conductor. So when a connection is called for both the upper and lower portion of the same terminal number, you dont have to make a solder bridge between the two holes.
Hope that was what you were asking anyway