Same with me. 800F is my default temp setting, but I'll drop to 700 for tiny pcb work and go to max for heavier duty stuff like solder tabs bolted to the chassis.
And as Doc B noted, the key is short dwell time: heat the joint area super fast and add solder. For me, that means deciding exactly where and at what angle I will place the tip and the solder wire, and getting "into position", before making contact. Sometimes that requires a bit of thinking - e.g., for hard to reach spots, or joints with multiple wires that will require multiple contacts with the soldering tip. A tricky solder joint can take me a few or more seconds to plan, but then only 1-2 second to do. I find that crimping wires to make a solid mechanical connection really helps too -- those lower lug round holes can be a bit challenging crimp-wise.
cheers, Derek