Very helpful and reading through the lingo as someone explains my exact scenario does help me understand more than just reading. So thank you very much.
Are these terminal #s correct then? A5 to 2, and B5 to 12. Grid stopper is at the end of the chain to ground at 2 & 12 with the other end everything hot starts from there out and the voltage can't pass through the stopper from the hot side is from what it sounds. And it's just this 100k resistor being installed, no other components need to be added?
Again, i greatly appreciate your guidance and time on this.
No, the 100K goes from A
6 to terminal 2 and B
6 to terminal 12. The grid stopper is already wired A5-A6 and B5-B6. A6 and B6 are not used by the tube so it's effectively just another terminal. Remember, "a grid stopper only works if it is the only thing physically connected to the actual grid; all other "grid" connections are actually made to the other end of the grid stopper."
The photo in the manual of the completed preamp shows red/black twisted pairs, with reds going to A6 and B6 and blacks going to 2 and 12. The other end of the twisted pairs is connected to the balance controls. Unsolder those twisted pairs from the balance control and connect them to whichever input RCA jacks you want to use. (Obviously you'll have to remove the existing wires from those chosen RCAs!) You can then put the 100K resistors at either end of the twisted pairs, whichever is easiest.